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Matthew Groom

Matthew Groom, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Practical, listening-led counselling for complex feelings

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  • Calm listening
  • Practical steps
  • Works with jealousy

About Matthew

Matthew Groom works with people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship pain and jealousy. He is Matthew Groom, BACP, and brings six years of professional experience to his practice. He aims to make the first step easier with a calm, straightforward approach.

He offers a space where people can talk about difficult feelings without judgement. Matthew listens closely and helps clients name what is happening. He focuses on practical, manageable steps rather than jargon or pressure to change quickly.

Matthew has worked in the NHS, the charity sector and independent practice. That range has given him experience with a wide set of concerns, including depression, trauma and addiction, and specific issues such as attachment, infidelity and alternative sexual cultures like BDSM and kink.

Sessions include conversations about boundaries, communication and coping skills. He also supports people facing grief, separation or career stress, and those experiencing compassion fatigue or bipolar challenges. The aim is to help people build more stable routine and clearer choices.

Matthew works in English and accepts international clients. He uses a straightforward matching process for new clients and schedules sessions according to availability. He describes therapy as a collaborative process and helps people find the next practical step once they feel ready.

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Evidence-based approaches focus on clear steps and talking openly about difficult feelings. One common approach helps people spot unhelpful patterns in thoughts and behaviour and then try small, practical experiments to change them. This is useful for anxiety, low mood and stress because it breaks problems into manageable actions.

Another helpful method looks at attachment and relationship patterns. It helps people understand repeated responses in close relationships - for example patterns around jealousy, control or abandonment - and tries different behaviours to improve connection and boundaries.

Finding the right approach is part of the work and Matthew treats this as a collaborative process. He will discuss options with each person, consider their goals and preferences, and agree on a plan to try together rather than prescribing a single method upfront.

The practical benefits of online therapy can include easier fitting of sessions into busy days, fewer travel demands and the ability to keep regular appointments from wherever you are. The biography does not state which online formats are used, so confirm the available session options before booking. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often use remote work to make therapy more convenient without changing the core of face-to-face conversations.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Matthew help with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and jealousy. Additional areas include trauma, addictions, anger and career-related strain.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He offers a listening-led, practical approach that focuses on clear steps and better communication. Sessions aim to help people name feelings and build manageable coping strategies.

What background does he bring to therapy?

He has six years of professional experience working in the NHS, the charity sector and independent practice. That experience informs a down-to-earth way of working with varied concerns.

Which professional credentials does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. He practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted. Confirm any cross-border arrangements when you start the process.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with him?

Choose the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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