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Ray Woods

Ray Woods, LCMFT, LMFT

Therapist in Oklahoma

Calm, practical therapy for relationship strain

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  • Focus on relationships
  • Practical coping skills
  • Respectful and direct

About Ray

Ray Woods is a licensed marriage and family therapist with LCMFT and LMFT credentials and 16 years of experience. He focuses on stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, and depression. Ray aims for straightforward, respectful conversations that help people move forward.

He uses practical talk and active listening to learn what matters to each person. Initial sessions focus on what feels most urgent and what small changes would help day to day. From there he and the client set simple goals and try approaches that fit the person's life and values.

Ray draws on several clinical methods to guide sessions, including attachment-based ideas, client-centered work, cognitive behavioral strategies, emotionally-focused methods, and elements of the Gottman approach. He explains techniques in plain terms and helps people practice new ways of thinking and relating between sessions.

Over his career he has supported people facing blended family challenges, caregiver stress, communication breakdown, control issues, divorce and separation, and difficulties tied to addiction, domestic violence, or military service. He also helps with feelings of isolation, jealousy, obsessions and compulsions, and issues related to intellectual disability.

Ray offers a calm, nonjudgmental presence and adapts his pace to each person's comfort. He encourages anyone feeling stuck to take the next step and complete the short matching process to start scheduling sessions.

How Ray's Approaches Fit Into Online Therapy

Attachment-based work looks at patterns of connection and trust and helps people understand how past relationships shape current reactions. It can be useful for people who feel stuck in recurring conflicts or worry about closeness.

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and following what the person says matters most. This approach helps people feel heard and supports them in finding their own solutions. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, targets unhelpful thoughts and habits and teaches specific strategies to change them, which can reduce anxiety and improve mood.

Choosing the right approach is a shared task. Ray will talk with each person about goals, try an approach, and adjust as needed based on what feels helpful. That collaborative process helps match techniques to the problem rather than forcing a single method.

The profile does not list specific session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. Licensed professionals can use spoken work and screen-based tools to practice skills and track progress over time.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Additional focus areas

Blended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

16+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Kansas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this therapist help with?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, self-esteem issues, and depression. Other focus areas include jealousy, communication problems, addiction-related concerns, and caregiver stress.

What is the therapist's general approach in sessions?

Sessions are conversational and goal oriented, blending client-centered listening with cognitive and emotion-focused techniques. The work emphasizes practical skills and clearer ways of relating to others.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has sixteen years of professional experience working with a range of issues including family and relationship challenges and trauma-related concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

He holds LCMFT and LMFT credentials and is licensed in Oklahoma.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and he does accept international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How is pricing handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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