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Shelley Aeschliman

Shelley Aeschliman, LPC

Therapist in Wisconsin

Compassionate counselor focused on real change

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  • Anxiety and depression
  • Relationship support
  • Practical strategies

About Shelley

Shelley Aeschliman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Wisconsin with 14 years of clinical experience. She helps people who are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, and low self-esteem. Shelley approaches her work with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and she encourages people to take the first step toward feeling better.

In sessions she focuses on practical steps and clear goals. Shelley uses methods that help people notice patterns, try new behaviors, and improve communication. She pays attention to how family history and attachment issues affect current struggles. Shelley also addresses problems such as abandonment fears, codependency, control issues, commitment concerns, and shame or guilt.

Shelley draws from several therapeutic approaches to shape each person's plan. She blends client-centered work with cognitive behavioral strategies, dialectical behavior tools, and emotionally-focused interventions as appropriate. This mix helps people manage intense emotions, change unhelpful thoughts, and repair important relationships.

Clients can expect a collaborative process where the therapist and client set goals together. Shelley aims for straightforward, practical sessions that fit into everyday life. She supports people navigating co-occurring concerns, impulsivity, and complex mood or behavioral presentations.

Shelley practices in Wisconsin and conducts therapy in English. If you are ready to begin, follow the Start Therapy steps to complete a short questionnaire and schedule based on availability.

Approaches that guide online work and practical care

Client-centered therapy emphasizes the client's own goals and pace. The therapist listens closely and reflects what matters most to the person, helping them find their own solutions and build confidence. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce anxiety and depression. It is practical and skill-oriented, useful for stress and mood concerns. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, teaches skills for regulating intense emotions, improving distress tolerance, and managing impulsivity. It is especially helpful when emotions feel overwhelming.

Finding the best approach is part of the work. Shelley will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That means starting with what matters most, then trying tools and adjusting them based on how they land for the client.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Many people find online therapy helpful because it can fit into busy schedules, reduce travel time, and make it easier to maintain regular check-ins. Online sessions can allow for shorter follow-ups or longer deep work depending on what the client needs, and they make it simpler to continue care when life is hectic.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Family of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

Wisconsin

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shelley commonly address?

Shelley works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, trauma and abuse, and self-esteem problems. She also helps with related issues like attachment, codependency, control issues, and impulsivity.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses a practical, collaborative approach that focuses on goals and clear steps. Sessions aim to identify patterns, try new behaviors, and improve communication.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 14 years of experience providing behavioral health support and working with people facing ongoing obstacles.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Wisconsin and provides services from that state.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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