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Virginia Ballantyne

Virginia Ballantyne, LCSW

Therapist in California

Compassionate client-centered care for relationship concerns

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  • Strengths-based approach
  • Sex positive ally
  • 12 years experience

About Virginia

Virginia Ballantyne is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California. She uses a client-centered, strengths-based approach to help people handle relationship strain, jealousy, anxiety, depression, and life changes. Her style is nonjudgmental and supportive, and she aims to help people find practical steps forward.

With 12 years of experience in nonprofit and county settings, Virginia has worked with people affected by intimate partner violence, trauma, and substance-related family problems. She brings experience supporting LGBT and gender-diverse people and creates a sex-positive environment where sexual identity and intimacy can be discussed openly.

In sessions she draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, and a client-centered humanistic approach. That blend lets her tailor the work to each person's situation and goals rather than following a single template.

Virginia focuses on practical skills for managing stress, coping with grief, addressing addictive behaviors, and handling control and communication problems. She emphasizes collaboration, helping clients identify strengths and try small, manageable changes between sessions.

People who want straightforward, compassionate help with relationship concerns, family issues, or the emotional fallout of trauma may find her approach useful. To begin, readers can use the site buttons to start the matching process and schedule a session.

Approach and online therapy that fits your life

Virginia uses Client-Centered Therapy to create a supportive space where people can talk through what matters most and decide their own goals. This approach focuses on listening, empathy, and helping people tap their own strengths to move forward.

She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help identify unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors. CBT offers concrete tools for anxiety, depression, stress, and relationship patterns that contribute to jealousy or conflict. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills are sometimes used to build emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and clearer communication in heated moments.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to match methods to their needs, goals, and preferences, and will adjust the plan as progress is made.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into work or family schedules, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Talk with the therapist about what will work best for your routine and comfort level.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger management

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSJealousyMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

12+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Virginia address?

She works with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting stress, addictions, and issues related to family and identity.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centered and nonjudgmental, focusing on each person’s strengths and goals while using practical techniques to manage symptoms and improve coping.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Virginia has 12 years of experience working in nonprofit and county services supporting a range of disadvantaged populations.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States sign up?

She is not currently taking international clients and works with people who reside in California.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions based on the therapist’s availability.

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