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Gayle Nykerk-Jones

Gayle Nykerk-Jones, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Experienced neuro-affirmative counsellor

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  • Ten years experience
  • Neuro-affirmative approach
  • Practical goal focus

About Gayle

Gayle Nykerk-Jones is a counsellor with ten years' experience based in the United Kingdom. She works in a neuro-affirmative way and aims to make the first steps less daunting for people seeking change. Gayle listens with respect and compassion, and she tailors conversations to each person's needs.

Her background is integrative, blending practical therapies to suit different problems. Gayle has supported people with depression, anxiety and stress, as well as those coping with grief, bereavement and loss. She has also helped people facing addictions, difficulties with focus or memory, and relationship and intimacy concerns.

She has experience with neurodivergent issues, including late-diagnosed adult autism and attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder. Gayle adapts her approach when sensory differences or concentration challenges are part of the picture. That flexibility helps make sessions feel more useful and reachable.

Gayle uses approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy. She draws from these methods to build a plan that fits practical goals and day-to-day life.

Her working style aims to be practical and calm. Conversations focus on what the person wants to change and small steps that can be tried between sessions. Gayle encourages people to set realistic goals and to notice what works for them.

How Gayle uses therapeutic approaches online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is useful when someone wants to make life changes while still feeling difficult emotions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and offers practical experiments to test new ways of coping. CBT is often chosen for anxiety, low mood and stress.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Gayle will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and everyday life. Sessions begin with listening to current problems and priorities, and then agree a plan that can change as needs evolve.

Confirm the exact online session options before booking, as formats are not stated here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit counselling around work, family and travel. It can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and offer ways of meeting that suit different energy and concentration levels. Registered or accredited professionals can use these approaches effectively through remote sessions when they match a person's practical needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be addressed?

Gayle supports a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, ADHD, relationship and intimacy-related difficulties, eating and sleeping problems, parenting strain, anger and self-esteem concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Sessions are tailored and conversational, with practical steps to try between meetings. She mixes evidence-based methods with a person-centred attitude to meet individual needs.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has worked in counselling for ten years in the United Kingdom and has experience supporting people with neurodivergent issues and late-diagnosed autism in adulthood.

What credentials does she hold and where does she practise?

She is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; she works with people within the United Kingdom.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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