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Hilary Cartmel-Batty

Hilary Cartmel-Batty, BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

Calm, practical support for stressful times

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  • Warm listening
  • Practical steps
  • Trauma-aware care

About Hilary

Hilary Cartmel-Batty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges and low mood. She works with people on issues such as grief, intimacy worries, addiction and career strain. Hilary listens without judgement and supports clients as they take steps towards a more manageable life.

She creates a calm space where thoughts and feelings can be talked through. Sessions focus on what matters to the client and on practical steps they can try between meetings. That might mean looking at attachment patterns, setting small goals, or working through difficult memories at a pace the client chooses.

Hilary uses a mix of client-centred and solution-focused ways of working alongside trauma-informed methods. This means she aims to understand the person, not just the problem, while also helping people notice what is already working and build on it. The approach is collaborative and straightforward.

Her work draws on five years of experience in the United Kingdom and on registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She balances a independent practice alongside other diary commitments and can discuss regular or flexible weekly sessions with clients.

People who choose to work with Hilary usually start by setting clear goals and checking how sessions fit into day-to-day life. She encourages practical strategies and gentle reflection so changes can be realistic and steady.

How Hilary's approaches guide online work

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape reactions now and helps people spot repeated patterns that affect current relationships. Client-centred work means the client sets the pace and is treated with acceptance, while the counsellor listens and reflects what matters most. Solution-focused techniques concentrate on small, practical changes and goal-setting to build momentum and relief from day-to-day strains.

Finding the right approach is treated as a shared process. The therapist will talk with the client about needs, goals and preferences and then suggest which methods to try. Sessions can be adapted over time if one way of working does not fit or if priorities shift.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work useful for fitting sessions around family or work life, cutting travel time and keeping regular contact when schedules are busy. Others appreciate brief check-ins or focused goal sessions when they need a practical update rather than a long appointment. Registered or accredited professionals can tailor session length and rhythm to help therapy fit into everyday routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Hilary help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, parenting worries, depression, grief, addiction and related concerns such as intimacy and self-esteem.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth. Sessions focus on listening, practical steps and helping clients notice what already helps them.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

Hilary has five years of experience working with a range of mental health and relationship issues in the United Kingdom.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Hilary?

Use the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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