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Mari DeRienzo

Mari DeRienzo, LPC

Therapist in New Jersey

Compassionate counselor with a practical focus

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  • Listening-first approach
  • Practical goal setting
  • Longstanding experience

About Mari

Mari DeRienzo is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey with 39 years of experience. She helps people who are feeling stressed, anxious, or stuck after big life changes. She also supports those dealing with intimacy concerns, parenting strain, grief, low self-esteem, and challenges related to ADHD and compassion fatigue.

She creates a calm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk about what matters to them. Sessions focus on listening first and then finding practical steps that fit each person’s life. Mari aims to make the process feel manageable and clear from the start.

Her work draws on client-centered methods that prioritize the person’s perspective. She uses cognitive behavioral ideas to identify thought patterns that add to stress. Motivational interviewing and solution-focused strategies help set short-term goals and build momentum.

Mari also brings internal family systems ideas into conversations about conflicting feelings and inner parts. This can help people understand why certain reactions keep repeating and how to respond differently.

Across nearly four decades of practice, Mari has supported people facing family problems, communication struggles, infidelity, addiction, and issues connected to alternative sexual cultures and kink. She also addresses concerns related to first responder stress, fatherhood issues, and intellectual disability when relevant.

People who want a straightforward, listening-first approach may find her style useful. She encourages prospective clients to take small steps toward change and offers hands-on strategies to move forward.

How her approaches guide online care

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and following the person's lead, helping people feel heard and respected while they talk through stress, family tensions, or intimacy concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and trying small behavioral experiments to reduce anxiety or improve mood. Motivational Interviewing helps when someone feels stuck or unsure about change by boosting their own reasons and readiness to move forward.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each client to select methods that match their goals, needs, and preferences. Many people blend elements from different approaches to address immediate problems and longer-term patterns.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets clients try different rhythms of work while focusing on the same practical steps discussed in sessions with a licensed professional.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger management

Also works with

LGBTGriefSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

39+ years

Credentials

New Jersey, Arizona

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, grief, self-esteem issues, and coping with life changes. Other focus areas include parenting, intimacy-related issues, ADHD, addiction, and relationship problems such as infidelity and communication struggles.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style begins with listening and creating an open space for thoughts and feelings. She combines client-centered listening with practical methods like CBT and solution-focused techniques to set achievable goals.

How much experience does she have?

She has 39 years of professional work experience in counseling and related settings.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in New Jersey. Her practice is based in New Jersey.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to start working together?

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