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Mary Kallenbach

Mary Kallenbach, LCMHC

Therapist in North Carolina

Therapist focused on practical change

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  • Practical problem solving
  • Trauma-informed care
  • Relationship focus

About Mary

Mary Kallenbach, LCMHC, helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, and questions about intimacy. She also supports those coping with trauma, addiction, mood concerns like bipolar, attention challenges, and self-esteem struggles. Mary practices in North Carolina and speaks English. Mary has worked in counseling since 1995 and has run a independent practice since 1998. Her background includes inpatient work with adult women, school-based therapy with adolescents, county mental health services, and long-term clinical work at a residential healing farm. Those roles exposed her to a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues. Her day-to-day approach is straightforward. She meets people where they are and focuses on practical steps toward feeling better. Sessions combine talking, skills practice, and real-life strategies you can try between meetings. Mary draws on several commonly used methods, including cognitive behavioral ideas, acceptance and commitment approaches, dialectical behavior strategies, and EMDR for trauma when appropriate. She tailors these methods to each person’s situation rather than using a single fixed plan. She has a Masters in Counseling from Webster University and holds the Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor credential in North Carolina. Her long experience includes work with eating disorders, PTSD, personality and psychotic presentations, and a variety of mood and adjustment concerns.

How therapy approaches fit into online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It focuses on values-based action so people can move toward what matters despite discomfort. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns. CBT is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is used for trauma-related memories and involves structured processing to reduce distress tied to those memories. Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences, then try methods that match those needs. That collaboration helps shape what happens week to week rather than locking into a single method up front. If you are considering online therapy, confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, shorten travel time, and allow for more consistent follow-up when in-person appointments are difficult. It can also let people choose a setup that works best for them, such as a shorter check-in when time is tight or an audio-only meeting when bandwidth is limited. Talk with the therapist about how to structure sessions to match your schedule and needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCancerCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

23+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Mary address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, and intimacy-related challenges among other concerns.

How would sessions with Mary feel?

Her style is direct and supportive. She focuses on meeting you where you are and using practical steps to address problems.

What clinical background does she bring?

Mary has worked in inpatient, school, county mental health, residential, and independent practice settings since 1995, giving her a broad clinical background.

What credentials and region apply?

She holds the LCMHC credential and practices in North Carolina.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Mary?

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