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Mary Kay Zayani

Mary Kay Zayani, LCSW

Therapist in California

Experienced LCSW helping with relationship struggles

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  • Warm listening style
  • Practical emotion tools
  • Relationship focus

About Mary

Mary Kay Zayani is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience. She helps people facing anxiety, grief, relationship strain, work stress, addictions, and challenges with intimacy and self-esteem. Her style is warm and direct, and she aims to help people find practical steps they can use between sessions.

She brings a calm, listening presence to the room and treats clients as partners in problem solving. Mary Kay focuses on helping people stabilize strong emotions, soothe themselves, and make clearer choices when life feels overwhelming. She encourages clients to identify personal strengths and to build on them over time.

Her work blends attachment-based ideas with client-centered listening and cognitive behavioral techniques. That means she pays attention to how relationships shape feelings, follows each person's lead, and challenges unhelpful thinking patterns in straightforward ways. She also uses elements of dialectical skills and existential questions when they fit the client's goals.

Mary Kay trained at Columbia University, earning a master’s degree in clinical social work. She holds LCSW credentials in California and New York. Her long experience includes helping people through divorce, loss, career transitions, and parenting stress.

People often come to her for help with abandonment or attachment concerns, communication and commitment issues, body image and eating struggles, or coping after infidelity. She works in English and practices in California. Before booking, readers should confirm current session options and scheduling details.

How Mary Kay blends approaches for online work

Mary Kay uses attachment-based work to look at how early and current relationships shape feelings and behavior; this helps when trust, abandonment, or closeness are central concerns. Client-centered therapy guides sessions with the client's needs and pace, creating space to be heard and to build on strengths. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) targets unhelpful thoughts and patterns with practical exercises and behavioral steps to reduce anxiety and improve mood.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Mary Kay will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. She checks in and adapts methods over time so the work stays relevant and doable for the client's life.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the session options before booking so you know which formats are available. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also help people practice new skills between appointments in the settings where they live and work. Licensed professionals guide the process so online sessions focus on clear goals, emotion regulation skills, and improving relationship patterns.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefCareer difficultiesCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

California, New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, career concerns, addictions, parenting and self-esteem problems, and related areas such as abandonment or attachment issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm, empathic, and nonjudgmental while also being practical. Sessions combine listening with tools to manage emotions and change unhelpful thinking.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 25 years of experience in counseling and mental health practice.

What credentials does she hold and where is she located?

She is an LCSW and holds licenses in New York and California, and she practices in California.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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