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Patricia Sumlin

Patricia Sumlin, LMFT

Therapist in Washington

Practical, experienced therapist for life transitions

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  • Direct and respectful
  • Skills focused
  • Trauma informed

About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of clinical experience. She helps people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, addiction, and issues tied to trauma and intimacy. She also works with concerns like parenting, sleep and eating struggles, career stress, and attention differences. Patricia uses a straightforward, respectful style and focuses on practical skills people can use right away.

Her approach blends several well-known methods to fit each person’s needs. She draws from cognitive behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thinking and from acceptance and commitment ideas to clarify values and build meaningful action. Attachment-based perspectives inform how she looks at relationship patterns and emotional safety.

Patricia has worked in many settings, including outpatient clinics, residential programs, hospice counseling, and community services in Alaska and California. That history includes creating DBT groups, leading programs for people with complex diagnoses, and supporting communities affected by chronic illness and homelessness. Her background shapes a trauma-informed, practical way of working.

She pays attention to cultural and neurodiversity issues and provides support for LGBTQIA individuals and people on the autism spectrum who want to better understand how neurodiversity affects relationships and daily life. Patricia aims to build a collaborative alliance that values honesty, clear boundaries, and steady skill building.

Sessions focus on learning tools to regulate emotions, reduce distress, and increase confidence. The goal is to help people move from surviving to functioning and toward a sense of safety and stability they can sustain.

Therapeutic approaches that translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people get clear about what matters to them and take small, values-driven steps even when difficult thoughts or feelings show up. It is useful for anxiety, stress, and life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on relationship patterns and how early bonds shape current connections; it helps people who want to understand and change repeating hurtful cycles. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, CBT, identifies unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and teaches practical techniques to test and change them for clearer mood and functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Patricia will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs and goals. She often combines techniques so sessions remain practical, grounded, and responsive to what’s happening in a client’s life.

Online therapy arrangements vary. Ask about the session options and scheduling details before booking, and explain what you need to participate comfortably. Agreeing on practical details can help you decide whether the proposed way of working fits your routine and preferences.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

California, Washington

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Patricia address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, grief, intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping problems, parenting challenges, anger, self-esteem, career changes, bipolar disorder, and ADHD among other concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is straightforward, honest, and nonjudgmental. She combines insight-oriented conversation with practical skills training so clients leave with tools they can use between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings 25 years of experience working in outpatient clinics, residential programs, hospice care, community services, and specialized treatment programs in multiple states.

What are her credentials and where is she licensed?

She is a LMFT - licensed marriage and family therapist - with licenses in California and Washington as CA LMFT and WA LMFT LF, and she practices from Washington.

Can I work with her if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.

What should I confirm before booking?

Ask about the current session options and scheduling arrangements before starting. Discuss any communication preferences or access needs with the therapist.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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