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Rob Millist

Rob Millist, BACP, NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

Practical counselling with compassionate listening

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  • Grounding techniques
  • Goal focused
  • Non-judgemental

About Rob

Rob Millist is a counsellor with seven years of practice who offers short-term and ongoing support. He works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and a wide range of life challenges. Rob holds BACP and NCPS credentials and combines practical tools with compassionate listening.

Rob draws on both coaching and counselling experience. He has worked one-to-one and in corporate settings, and has worked with organisations such as Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS. That background shapes a down-to-earth style that aims to build confidence and self-growth rather than rely on jargon.

Sessions begin with a longer first meeting to review presenting concerns, set goals and agree how progress will be tracked using a monthly Wellbeing Score. Regular sessions are typically 45 minutes. Rob also reviews messages and voicenotes during the week to support continuity of care.

In the room he aims to be welcoming and non-judgemental. He blends talking therapy with grounding techniques to help manage strong emotions as they come up. Practical steps and short exercises are offered when useful alongside open listening.

People contact Rob for many issues including addiction, bereavement, trauma, depression, bipolar, ADHD, eating and sleep concerns, and career questions. He also supports those navigating attachment and abandonment issues, body image, autism-related concerns and aspects of kink and alternative sex culture. If you want a direct, compassionate counsellor who helps you set a pace, this may be a good fit.

Approaches that shape online counselling

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships affect current patterns. It looks at how people relate to others and helps when attachment and abandonment issues cause distress. Client-Centred Therapy puts the person at the heart of sessions; the counsellor offers non-judgemental listening and helps the client find their own solutions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts and behaviours and offers practical exercises to ease symptoms like anxiety and low mood.

Finding the right approach is usually a collaborative process. Rob will work with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That means trying practical exercises, reflective discussion or grounding techniques, and adjusting what happens as progress is made.

Practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions around busy days and keeping continuity when in-person visits are difficult. The profile notes a 50-minute first session and 45-minute follow-ups, and that Rob reviews messages and voicenotes during the week to support ongoing work; confirm the current session options before booking. Online arrangements can make it easier to schedule brief check-ins, include short exercises between meetings, and maintain momentum while juggling other commitments.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

See below

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counsellor help with?

He works with a broad range of issues including stress, anxiety, addiction, grief, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, depression and bipolar, and practical life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Rob blends talk therapy with grounding techniques and practical exercises, using a head-and-heart approach that emphasises confidence building and clear goals.

What is his professional background?

He has seven years' experience and has worked in one-to-one and corporate settings, as well as with organisations such as Youthline UK, Mind and PAWS.

What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?

Rob holds BACP and NCPS credentials and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are used for working together?

The profile describes a first session of 50 minutes and regular sessions of 45 minutes, with message and voicenote review during the week; confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a counselling process with him?

Click the continue button on this profile, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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